11 Best Man Duties

So, you've been chosen to be a best man at a wedding - congratulations! Being a best man is a great honour - but remember, with great honour comes great responsibility. Here is a list of things a best man is usually required to do...

 

  1. Organise the Stag party.
  2. Help the groom choose a gift for the bride on behalf of all the groomsmen.
  3. Help the groom get dressed on the wedding day.
  4. Keep the rings safe until the are needed at the ceremony.
  5. Drive the groom to the ceremony and escort the happy couple to their car after the ceremony.
  6. Take care of the buttonholes.
  7. Organise the ushers and make sure they distribute the Order of Service cards to the guests.
  8. Stand on the groom's right side before the bride walks up the aisle.
  9. Sign the register as a witness.
  10. Say a speech or toast at the reception. This may include reading out any email or fax messages from absent guests.
  11. Make sure that the flowers that the groom sends to the mother-of-the-bride reach her the day after the ceremony.